Sometimes I wonder, Why do we cling so tightly to so-called manhood, however defined? Why not, for once, listen to Dr. Dreyfuss advice to be a mensch, a good person, a human being? Because before anything else, we are all humans, regardless of gender (or lack thereof). Just respect others and yourself, reach out to your neighbour, like in that simple slogan of the John Doe Club from Capra’s classic, and rediscover the open-minded boy you once were. I know it sounds a bit naive, but isn’t it worth exposing yourself to ridicule if it turns out that it will change your and others lives for the better?